might not be what we really see.
I'm just having a random title for this post cuz i can't really think of what i'm gonna say in the next few lines/paragraphs. Nothing much, just random stuff and some updates about life?
Intern started. Nothing much to say about that, just work work...and work. I guess having internet access really makes intern life much better? But I don't have that luxury, at all. So yeah, its kinda sucky nowadays. Doing work, work and just work.
Had dinner last night with the ese peeps. Not really into korean, so yeah, good meat, but really, not something that I would go back for. With that said, its kinda boring hearing them all talking about ese stuff, but as usual, i just tried to stay interested, sound interested and chip in with a few laughters here and there. But it was good company anyway, so yeah. Better than staying at home on a boring saturday night. I needed to get out and enjoy anyway.
Friday night was much more fun with the drinking and karaoke. Its only around these guys that I can be myself? Not giving a care about what's gonna happen if I do this or that, just thinking that nothing will go wrong. Being able to be oneself. Guess that's what i've always been searching for in my life. A place where I can be myself. I do miss secondary school days alot. It was when I felt I had everything. The degree of freedom back then was just right. Not too rigid, we still had some control over our life but there were people monitoring out progress so that we wun go wrong. Well, those were the days.
I always felt it wasn't right growing up. It seemed as though the older i grow, the number of ppl i can actually talk to about my stuff just dwindle down slowly. Back then, if I ever needed someone to talk to, i'll just go on msn. The first few ppl on my contact list would definitely be ppl that I could talk to. Now, I open up my msn, I don't even feel like talking. When you try so hard to talk to ppl, but they really dun care. Cuz someone like me just doesn't matter to anyone. I'm just, another person to everyone. In life, there are people who will be special to other people, people who you want to keep in life, for life. Well, for me, it seems as though i'm not any of these to anyone. To ppl, i'm just the kind of person that doesn't matter. I'm only there for as long as i'm useful. Once there's no use of me for anything, they kick me aside like as if its alright to hurt my feelings, as if its a given that I'll get back up and carry on walking. Yeah, I did get back up and carried on walking for alot of times already. But i'm just getting tired. Being able to get back up doesn't mean it does not hurt anymore. The pain always stays.
But no one cared.
No one is listening.
Everyone's busy with their own life, who would care about you? When it seems that i'm the only person who's concerned about other ppl's feelings when it comes to asking ppl out, when it comes to giving ppl what they wanted. For many a times I could have just said fuck it, I don't give a shit about how u'll feel if i dun ask you. But no, I actually gave a shit, so I actually asked you, only to realise that some things dun matter to you at all. For this, i'm actually speaking of a particular person, not naming names, but if she reads this, she'll probably know who she is. But yeah, whatever. So why did I care about how you would feel, when you didn't spare a thought for why I even bothered to ask you in the first place. Cuz i'm afraid you would feel left out? But nah, it didn't really matter to you.
Is it really a must to say out what we feel? good things or bad? If u can see it, you'll see it. If you can't you'll never see. So why shld I be the one saying the things to beautify the world, when if you already know hos good as a person you are, there is no need for complements. With that said, yes, i'm talking about another person now. When you really care, and ppl think you don't, that feeling actually sucks. So yeah, whatever. Why do I even care.
Sometimes, you just keep wondering about why certain things happen in life. Its okay if you know what went wrong. But if you didn't know what went wrong, then how do you deal with it? I still have no idea what the problem is. When we meet up, it actually feels normal, but deep down, I just know there's something wrong. What happened during the sem, I really want to know. But if you dun even want to talk, how do we even communicate?
Alot of things I can just let go, but I didn't. Cuz i always spare a thought for everyone else. But who actually gave a shit about me? Who actually cared. Those ppl, who said that they care, they're not here anymore. Any promise to be always there for me, there's only one thing that will stay always, and that is, they'll "always" be broken.... Always.
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