Monday, October 19, 2009

Defining friends

So today while waiting for yichao to come out to have dinner at techno edge. Shiyi was asking me and zhiwei this qsn. "Do you call each other close friends?"

O wells, then came the definition of close and friends. And my definition has always been standard, ranking from lowest level:

Hi-bye friends: People who you just say hi and bye to, ppl that you could be least concerned with their life. Of cuz, if something happens to them, u'll still be interested to know.

Normal friends: People who you sometimes hang out together with, people who you can say more stuff other than hi and bye. Do stuff together, like play sports...

Good friends: People who you enjoy hanging out with, people who you like to talk to (except for problems close to the heart). These are the people who I can ask to go out to watch movies, play sports, play lan and stuff. Most of my platoon mates belong here.

Close friends: People who you can talk to, about almost everything under the sun. People who you know you can trust. People who you really enjoy going out with. Very few people belong to this group, but really, you do not need that many close friends in life.

Then comes the problem about trust, which i've decided to elaborate on my private blog instead of here.

ok, so ya. That's it, so i would say zhiwei is a close friend. haha.

Nothing much to talk about the events that happened today though, just the standard monotony of a university student. And ya, I got accepted into o week sub-com! *pops champange* Looking at the stuff i've planned to do after final exams, o mans, i guess i'll be really busy come dec hols. O wells, the following list consists of the things that i may do/want to do. hahaha, but not WILL do. =P given my laziness, I would only probably do half of whatever that is on that list. Not in any particular order

1) Go back to MOM to work for the labour force survey (realised its really good money)=D
2) Learn to cook more stuff, with requiem and jansen since requiem seems so interested in learning how to cook for noc, and me personally thinking that it would be a good skill to acquire
3) Design my room at my new house, I want it neat, with all my favourite stuff hanging around on the wall. =D
4) Get Beatles Rock Band once I move in to my new house, so I can jam! =D o wells, not really jam, but still, it gives almost the same feeling
5) Get ppl to come to my new house after i move in. =D To warm up my room. always wanted to invite ppl to my house but never had my own room.
6) Start running regularly so that I can at least reach 30km run by the time sundown comes next year.
7) If requiem they all want go msia for that hiking thing, will probably join them, though i would really wanna go to taiwan/spain/japan but that would cost so much more. =(
8) Feel like going on a cruise, but dunno, most prob no time to do that.
9) CHRISTMAS!
10)new year plus sis wedding!

But of cuz, thinking of all these are a bit too early, considering that exams are not over yet. O wells, its all down to perspective, true that exams are coming soon, but looking at it in another way, the break's coming soon too!=D

Thanks to what requiem said, i've managed to kan kai abit le ba. hahas. thx!

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